It was so hard to do cause this is my first time trial n i didn't even know the trick. My leg is shaking, but i kept pushing myself to climb. I often thought to give up, but every time the thoughts came to my mind, i saw the top, my target so i kept climbing and praying (i need a strength God...that's what i prayed for). I finally reached the top with a lot of effort n sweat for sure...it was really fantastic feeling, but i still had another challenge, i must jump. Guess what...? my leg is shaking faster than when i climbed, it was scarier!!! Once again, i tell my self maybe it's not as scary as i thought, so i took a deep breath n jump...it was superrrrr fantastic!!!! i feel like flying!!!!
From my experience, i learnt something precious. Several of us had a dream that we wanna reach, but sometimes our fear block our way. We feel afraid if we fall down, it will be hurt. Sometimes when the fear or challenge come, we think to give up. But friends....if we give up, we wouldn't know how it feels when we reach our goal. So..how to forget the fear???? Just focus to the goal, keep praying n asking for the strength that we need to God, keep climbing. When we feel tired, just take a rest for a while, don't worry if others walk faster than us, just gain the energy that we need to climb. After we get the energy, keep climbing n don't look down, cherish ourselves that we can do it...n try to imagine what we will feel when we reach our goal. Trust me...with the power of faith..u will reach ur goal ^^. Sometimes our fear is scarier that the reality. Cia yo!!
Monday, June 11, 2012
Defeat Fear!
Like most people, i have a fear. I am afraid of height, but i'm not an acrophobic. Oneday, i challenge my self by doing an outbond game which is called flying fox. At the first time, to reach the top, i must climb or crawl through the spider net. 
It was so hard to do cause this is my first time trial n i didn't even know the trick. My leg is shaking, but i kept pushing myself to climb. I often thought to give up, but every time the thoughts came to my mind, i saw the top, my target so i kept climbing and praying (i need a strength God...that's what i prayed for). I finally reached the top with a lot of effort n sweat for sure...it was really fantastic feeling, but i still had another challenge, i must jump. Guess what...? my leg is shaking faster than when i climbed, it was scarier!!! Once again, i tell my self maybe it's not as scary as i thought, so i took a deep breath n jump...it was superrrrr fantastic!!!! i feel like flying!!!!
From my experience, i learnt something precious. Several of us had a dream that we wanna reach, but sometimes our fear block our way. We feel afraid if we fall down, it will be hurt. Sometimes when the fear or challenge come, we think to give up. But friends....if we give up, we wouldn't know how it feels when we reach our goal. So..how to forget the fear???? Just focus to the goal, keep praying n asking for the strength that we need to God, keep climbing. When we feel tired, just take a rest for a while, don't worry if others walk faster than us, just gain the energy that we need to climb. After we get the energy, keep climbing n don't look down, cherish ourselves that we can do it...n try to imagine what we will feel when we reach our goal. Trust me...with the power of faith..u will reach ur goal ^^. Sometimes our fear is scarier that the reality. Cia yo!!
It was so hard to do cause this is my first time trial n i didn't even know the trick. My leg is shaking, but i kept pushing myself to climb. I often thought to give up, but every time the thoughts came to my mind, i saw the top, my target so i kept climbing and praying (i need a strength God...that's what i prayed for). I finally reached the top with a lot of effort n sweat for sure...it was really fantastic feeling, but i still had another challenge, i must jump. Guess what...? my leg is shaking faster than when i climbed, it was scarier!!! Once again, i tell my self maybe it's not as scary as i thought, so i took a deep breath n jump...it was superrrrr fantastic!!!! i feel like flying!!!!
From my experience, i learnt something precious. Several of us had a dream that we wanna reach, but sometimes our fear block our way. We feel afraid if we fall down, it will be hurt. Sometimes when the fear or challenge come, we think to give up. But friends....if we give up, we wouldn't know how it feels when we reach our goal. So..how to forget the fear???? Just focus to the goal, keep praying n asking for the strength that we need to God, keep climbing. When we feel tired, just take a rest for a while, don't worry if others walk faster than us, just gain the energy that we need to climb. After we get the energy, keep climbing n don't look down, cherish ourselves that we can do it...n try to imagine what we will feel when we reach our goal. Trust me...with the power of faith..u will reach ur goal ^^. Sometimes our fear is scarier that the reality. Cia yo!!
Friday, May 18, 2012
Sunny Side Up
For egg's lover just come to this restaurant to fulfill ur desire. It's all about egg, not just food but also drink. The egg which they served is arabian egg which has a lot of advantages (u can read those at the first page of the menu). They have a lot of variation of the food from omelette, pancake, toast, scrambled egg, boiled egg, and also soup. They have White yolk juice which contains albumen as it named. The price is also reasonable for our pocket around Rp 20.000 - 30.000,- for the food.
When i came to this restaurant, i ordered their recommended food, such as egg bacon (Rp 25.500,-), it's eggs on the top of bacon, and Rambutan quail eggs (Rp 24.500,-), the eggs are covered with beef n crunchy outside, it's so yummy...! n the best part for me is the mango juice. It's big, fresh n can be shared for 4 people, n the most important..it's only around Rp 25.000,-.
Beside the food n beverages, the interior of the restaurant is also unique and u will feel like home :)
So..i also recommended this restaurant for every food lover out there. Here is the address if u wanna try :)
-Downtown Walk #DGF - 231
Summarecon Mall Serpong
-Ruko Alexandrite, Blok ALX3 No. 7 Gading Serpong
My Forever Moment
Every woman dreams about what would they wear on their very special moment, which is their wedding day. It also happened to me. At the first time, i'm so confuse to choose which bridal should i pick for my wedding day. I visited more than 10 bridals and finally i choosed this one. The one that i chose was Ivory Bridal. It's located at Jl. Taman Sari X / 11B Jakarta Barat. This bridal is one of the partner for my building venue (Sme Towes building). At the first time i entered this bridal, i really didn't have any hope cause it's really small place. But it's true, don't judge the book by the cover. When i saw the collections, i got a good impression. They have beautiful dress which is carefully taken care. The marketing staff is also nice n welcoming u
warmly. She showed me a lot of dresses n asked me to try it on. I saw the dresses from the standard price n special price. The standard price's gown is also beauty n carefully taken
care, this why i started to like this bridal. After several times looking for the dresses, i picked several dress to try on from the ballroom gown style to the mermaid n outdoor style gown. Finally i falling love with the dress which i picked for my big day.
The service of this bridal is good until my wedding day. They often call me once a month to follow up the payment terms, the schedule of make up test, the new gown, and also reminding me about fitting time. They gave me three times fitting times, two weeks before the day, one week before, and 3 days before.
On my Wedding day, the make up staff is ontime and well prepared. The one that maked me up is Achong. He is good. I like his creation (u can see my make up on my photos), not to thick or "menor" but it turned me to a beautiful queen for a day. When u came back for retouch time, the will change ur wedding dress to kimono so u can relax for a moment. They will change the whole make up also to adjust ur wedding theme so it's not only pouring more powder or spread the eyeshadow darker. The powder also like ur second skin, not to thick n it's not cracking until the dinner reception finished.
The best things that i like from this bridal beside the gown, the service, is alosi the price. They have a reasonable price for a beautiful gown n make up. So for u who just have limited budget for the bridal but still wanna look beautiful for ur wedding day, i really higly recommended this bridal. Just come to the bridal n maybe u'll fallin love with the gown :)
Thursday, April 5, 2012
The One who saved my life
I got a lot of insight during the White Thursday mass this evening. I've been touched by the preaching. One of the best part is as a God, He bowed down His knee to serve His disciples. He washed their feet n kissed it...this reminds me about humbleness. Put off our mask, our ego, our pride to serve other, it's the way to represent His love in this world. it's the message...Love needs an action to be shown cause love is verb.
Beside serving His disciples, the other forms of love that He shown for us is the cross. when i sat down on church this day to attend white Thursday mass, i feel so gloomy, worry, n another negative feeling. I feel afraid of my future n several unfinished business. I feel so tired to pray n God is so far. Could He understand my feeling? i asked myself.
Everything change when i heard Father's preaching. My Lord were a human being. Before he was crucified, He also fear afraid until his sweat turned to blood. He was crying also n shaking. He has a humanity side..just like us, but eventhough He is so afraid, He keep sacrificing His life for us cause we are His beloved children.
That makes me realized...He understands what i feel...He is not a God who has a distance with us. He can understand my worry, fear,sadness. He had been underestimated even more, insulted. He had already felt everything that we may feel so He understands us. He cries when i cry cause He felt what i felt too....because He loves human being a lot...so He never sees us as unworthy things, but a precious person in His Eyes.
As i know....He died for us, not because we are a great person, just because we are all sinner. He knows that we can't survive unless He died for us. He sacrificed his life n had been tortured just to set us free from our sin. What a great art of love that human being has ever presented...
He is always there for us cause He knows how weak we are...He always accompany our journey cause He knows that we need Him. He miss us everyday n wanna talk to us every second. When we are too far from Him, He keeps loving us n try a way to grab us back. He loves us unconditionally. What a great love...!
Thank U Lord, Ur love makes me feel how worthy i am in Ur Eyes...if God is with us, who will against us? Nothing can seperate His love from us. What should i afraid of since U understand me more than i understand my self!! U will provide what i need cause U know it even better than me.
Happy Easter all, May the blessing be with us always!
Beside serving His disciples, the other forms of love that He shown for us is the cross. when i sat down on church this day to attend white Thursday mass, i feel so gloomy, worry, n another negative feeling. I feel afraid of my future n several unfinished business. I feel so tired to pray n God is so far. Could He understand my feeling? i asked myself.
Everything change when i heard Father's preaching. My Lord were a human being. Before he was crucified, He also fear afraid until his sweat turned to blood. He was crying also n shaking. He has a humanity side..just like us, but eventhough He is so afraid, He keep sacrificing His life for us cause we are His beloved children.
That makes me realized...He understands what i feel...He is not a God who has a distance with us. He can understand my worry, fear,sadness. He had been underestimated even more, insulted. He had already felt everything that we may feel so He understands us. He cries when i cry cause He felt what i felt too....because He loves human being a lot...so He never sees us as unworthy things, but a precious person in His Eyes.
As i know....He died for us, not because we are a great person, just because we are all sinner. He knows that we can't survive unless He died for us. He sacrificed his life n had been tortured just to set us free from our sin. What a great art of love that human being has ever presented...
He is always there for us cause He knows how weak we are...He always accompany our journey cause He knows that we need Him. He miss us everyday n wanna talk to us every second. When we are too far from Him, He keeps loving us n try a way to grab us back. He loves us unconditionally. What a great love...!
Thank U Lord, Ur love makes me feel how worthy i am in Ur Eyes...if God is with us, who will against us? Nothing can seperate His love from us. What should i afraid of since U understand me more than i understand my self!! U will provide what i need cause U know it even better than me.
Happy Easter all, May the blessing be with us always!
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Cause We Are Beautiful
di suatu toko bunga, tersedia berbagai macam bunga yang indah...di barisan depan ada bunga anggrek yang anggun, bunga lily yang elegan, bunga edelweis yang manis, bunga tulip yang indah, bunga mawar yang terkenal
di barisan kedua ada bunga gerbera, bunga chrysant, bunga rumput, bunga matahari, dan bunga-bunga lainnya yang tak kalah indah...semua bunga setiap hari tersenyum dengan manisnya demi memikat hati orang-orang yang lewat untuk membelinya...namun hanya ada satu bunga yang terletak di pojok belakang, yang selalu tampak sedih...kesepian, sendirian...tak banyak orang yang mau melirik ke arahnya apalagi membelinya...itulah si melati...setiap hari sebagaimanapun cerianya si melati, orang-orang malah takut melihat ke arahnya...karena mengingatkannya akan bau kematian...melati pun sedih..merasa diri tidak berharga dan kalah cantik dengan bunga-bunga lainnya...ia sungguh merasa tidak berguna..
suatu hari, di malam hari saat toko bunga sudah tutup...melati terisak dalam hening....lalu tiba-tiba..datanglah seorang malaikat menghampirinya
"mengapa kau sedih melati?"
"aku merasa diriku tak berharga dan tak berguna, bunga-bunga lain di toko ini banyak peminatnya, tetapi aku...hampir tidak ada yang membeliku...apa karena aku tidak secantik dan seindah bunga-bunga lainnya?"
"siapa yang mengatakan itu padamu?"
"lihat saja buktinya..tidak ada yang mau membeliku...bahkan setiap mereka yang melihatku, ketakutan..karena aku identik dengan kematian."
"memangnya kau ingin seperti siapa?" tanya si malaikat dengan penuh kesabaran sambil mengelus mahkotaku..
"aku ingin seperti bunga-bunga yang lain, aku iri pada mereka, terutama pada bunga lily yang bisa ada di hotel-hotel berbintang, restoran berkelas, buket-buket termahal, atau seperti mawar yang selalu dicari orang ketika hari valentine tiba, atau seperti bunga tulip yang harganya mahal....yang penting tidak seperti diriku..sudah murah...jelek....identik dengan hal yang buruk lagi..."kata melati sambil terisak..
"walau kau bukan mereka...tak tahukah kau bahwa dirimu pun tak kalah berharga?" tanya malaikat itu..
melati pun tertunduk sambil menggelengkan kepalanya lemah...
"mari ikut aku..aku ingin menunjukkan sesuatu padamu."
lalu malaikat itu mengajak melati berkeliling...pertama ia mengajak melati ke pabrik teh, dimana melati melihat ia diracik dengan daun teh hingga menjadi teh melati....lalu malaikat itu mengajak melati ke restoran ternama dimana restoran tersebut menyajikan teh melati dan memperlihatkan betapa pengunjung yang memesan teh tersebut menikmati harumnya aroma teh tersebut dan merasa tenang setelah meminumnya.....
setelah itu malaikat tersebut mengajak melati ke toko parfum, dimana ia memperlihatkan berbagai wewangian ruangan, wewangian badan yang menggunakan melati sebagai bahan dasarnya....
malaikat tersebut terus mengajak melati berkeliling dunia untuk melihat betapa banyak fungsi dan manfaat dirinya....hingga terakhir..ia mengajak melati ke suatu tempat yang sudah sangat dikenal melati....kuburan....
di situ..ada seorang anak kecil yang membawa bunga melati dan sedang duduk di makam seorang wanita...
"ibu, apa kabarnya ibu?" tanya anak itu
melati melihat anak itu sedang mengelus-elus pusara ibunya...melati terdiam dan menanti apa yang ingin diperlihatkan malaikat itu padanya...
"ibu ini aku bawakan bunga kesukaan ibu, bunga melati....untunglah bunga yang ibu suka sanggup kubeli...sebenarnya aku ingin sekali membelikan ibu bunga-bunga lain yang lebih mahal...namun aku tak punya uang...uangku hanya cukup untuk membeli bunga ini....untunglah semasa ibu hidup, ibu pun paling suka dengan baunya....aku selalu ingat ibu selalu bilang..biar bunga ini kecil, namun bunga ini membawa keharuman yang luar biasa...bunga yang sangat sederhana namun sangat kuat...."
mendengar hal itu..melati terdiam..dan mulai meneteskan air mata...segala sesuatu menjadi kabur dalam pandangannya, ia menatap malaikat dengan penuh syukur dan meminta dikembalikan ke toko bunga...ia tidak sanggup lagi melihat ataupun mendengar apa yang akan dikatakan anak itu...
sesampainya di toko bunga...melati kecil memeluk erat malaikat tersebut
"terima kasih telah mengajakku berkeliling hingga akhirnya aku mengerti arti keberadaanku.."
kata melati sambil terisak
"bersyukurlah selalu pada Tuhan yang menjadikan segalanya indah.." setelah mengucapkan hal tersebut..malaikat tersebut menghilang..
dalam keheningan..terpetik sebaris doa melati pada Tuhan...
"ya Tuhan..maafkan aku bila aku terus membandingkan diri dengan sesamaku...maafkan aku bila aku tidak bersyukur atas keberadaanku dan meragukan kebermaknaanku....terima kasih Tuhan..karena seburuk apapun diriku, tentulah aku memiliki keindahanku dan peranku sendiri...amin."
di barisan kedua ada bunga gerbera, bunga chrysant, bunga rumput, bunga matahari, dan bunga-bunga lainnya yang tak kalah indah...semua bunga setiap hari tersenyum dengan manisnya demi memikat hati orang-orang yang lewat untuk membelinya...namun hanya ada satu bunga yang terletak di pojok belakang, yang selalu tampak sedih...kesepian, sendirian...tak banyak orang yang mau melirik ke arahnya apalagi membelinya...itulah si melati...setiap hari sebagaimanapun cerianya si melati, orang-orang malah takut melihat ke arahnya...karena mengingatkannya akan bau kematian...melati pun sedih..merasa diri tidak berharga dan kalah cantik dengan bunga-bunga lainnya...ia sungguh merasa tidak berguna..
suatu hari, di malam hari saat toko bunga sudah tutup...melati terisak dalam hening....lalu tiba-tiba..datanglah seorang malaikat menghampirinya
"mengapa kau sedih melati?"
"aku merasa diriku tak berharga dan tak berguna, bunga-bunga lain di toko ini banyak peminatnya, tetapi aku...hampir tidak ada yang membeliku...apa karena aku tidak secantik dan seindah bunga-bunga lainnya?"
"siapa yang mengatakan itu padamu?"
"lihat saja buktinya..tidak ada yang mau membeliku...bahkan setiap mereka yang melihatku, ketakutan..karena aku identik dengan kematian."
"memangnya kau ingin seperti siapa?" tanya si malaikat dengan penuh kesabaran sambil mengelus mahkotaku..
"aku ingin seperti bunga-bunga yang lain, aku iri pada mereka, terutama pada bunga lily yang bisa ada di hotel-hotel berbintang, restoran berkelas, buket-buket termahal, atau seperti mawar yang selalu dicari orang ketika hari valentine tiba, atau seperti bunga tulip yang harganya mahal....yang penting tidak seperti diriku..sudah murah...jelek....identik dengan hal yang buruk lagi..."kata melati sambil terisak..
"walau kau bukan mereka...tak tahukah kau bahwa dirimu pun tak kalah berharga?" tanya malaikat itu..
melati pun tertunduk sambil menggelengkan kepalanya lemah...
"mari ikut aku..aku ingin menunjukkan sesuatu padamu."
lalu malaikat itu mengajak melati berkeliling...pertama ia mengajak melati ke pabrik teh, dimana melati melihat ia diracik dengan daun teh hingga menjadi teh melati....lalu malaikat itu mengajak melati ke restoran ternama dimana restoran tersebut menyajikan teh melati dan memperlihatkan betapa pengunjung yang memesan teh tersebut menikmati harumnya aroma teh tersebut dan merasa tenang setelah meminumnya.....
setelah itu malaikat tersebut mengajak melati ke toko parfum, dimana ia memperlihatkan berbagai wewangian ruangan, wewangian badan yang menggunakan melati sebagai bahan dasarnya....
malaikat tersebut terus mengajak melati berkeliling dunia untuk melihat betapa banyak fungsi dan manfaat dirinya....hingga terakhir..ia mengajak melati ke suatu tempat yang sudah sangat dikenal melati....kuburan....
di situ..ada seorang anak kecil yang membawa bunga melati dan sedang duduk di makam seorang wanita...
"ibu, apa kabarnya ibu?" tanya anak itu
melati melihat anak itu sedang mengelus-elus pusara ibunya...melati terdiam dan menanti apa yang ingin diperlihatkan malaikat itu padanya...
"ibu ini aku bawakan bunga kesukaan ibu, bunga melati....untunglah bunga yang ibu suka sanggup kubeli...sebenarnya aku ingin sekali membelikan ibu bunga-bunga lain yang lebih mahal...namun aku tak punya uang...uangku hanya cukup untuk membeli bunga ini....untunglah semasa ibu hidup, ibu pun paling suka dengan baunya....aku selalu ingat ibu selalu bilang..biar bunga ini kecil, namun bunga ini membawa keharuman yang luar biasa...bunga yang sangat sederhana namun sangat kuat...."
mendengar hal itu..melati terdiam..dan mulai meneteskan air mata...segala sesuatu menjadi kabur dalam pandangannya, ia menatap malaikat dengan penuh syukur dan meminta dikembalikan ke toko bunga...ia tidak sanggup lagi melihat ataupun mendengar apa yang akan dikatakan anak itu...
sesampainya di toko bunga...melati kecil memeluk erat malaikat tersebut
"terima kasih telah mengajakku berkeliling hingga akhirnya aku mengerti arti keberadaanku.."
kata melati sambil terisak
"bersyukurlah selalu pada Tuhan yang menjadikan segalanya indah.." setelah mengucapkan hal tersebut..malaikat tersebut menghilang..
dalam keheningan..terpetik sebaris doa melati pada Tuhan...
"ya Tuhan..maafkan aku bila aku terus membandingkan diri dengan sesamaku...maafkan aku bila aku tidak bersyukur atas keberadaanku dan meragukan kebermaknaanku....terima kasih Tuhan..karena seburuk apapun diriku, tentulah aku memiliki keindahanku dan peranku sendiri...amin."
My virtues of life
If life is a battle…it’s not always about win or lose, but it’s a matter of being a better person or worse
Life is keep going on no matter what happened to us, but it doesn’t mean that we always must move quickly, sometimes..it’s ok to have a “pause” or slow down our pace
Hard moment in our life doesn’t mean that He punish us for what we’ve done…but it’s a time for ur to develop ourselves and built our character stronger than before..
We can see both side, either good one or bad one in every little things happened in our life…n it’s our decision to portrait those moments in a good or bad way…
Being a success person doesn’t mean anything if u don’t have love or heart, or even people who care for u…
We aren’t a weak person by realizing our weaknesses, it just remind us that we aren’t a perfect person
The biggest monster in our life is our thought
If u want to learn about urself…then listen to ur deepest heart…it’s the real us
Asking help from other doesn’t even mean that we are a weak person, it just reminds us why He created others to live with us…
By giving with sincere heart…u will receive more than u could even think…
If we always think in our box…we will never know the amazing thing which could be happened in our life..
Everytime we hurt others…it means we hurt ourselves…
The medicine of every wound is love…
The time only helps us to reduce the pain but we are the one who choose whether we want to keep the wound or be healed…
What is the best from ourselves is being ourselves n use our strength to create a better living
Focusing on our weakness only would lead us to hopelessness…we just need to discover our strength n use it….that’s life..
Sometimes success is defined by luck..but mostly…we would reach successful life with hardwork, persistence, n faith….
When u don’t have anything left…it’s ur faith n hope that make u hang on….n walk again..so don’t ever lose ur faith n hope…
From a pessimistic person, we learn how to become alert n anticipate threat. From an optimistic person, we learn how to keep our hope n strive for it…
Fate is defined by our decisions….
If life is a games..then we should play seriously..so we don’t regret something…
Life is keep going on no matter what happened to us, but it doesn’t mean that we always must move quickly, sometimes..it’s ok to have a “pause” or slow down our pace
Hard moment in our life doesn’t mean that He punish us for what we’ve done…but it’s a time for ur to develop ourselves and built our character stronger than before..
We can see both side, either good one or bad one in every little things happened in our life…n it’s our decision to portrait those moments in a good or bad way…
Being a success person doesn’t mean anything if u don’t have love or heart, or even people who care for u…
We aren’t a weak person by realizing our weaknesses, it just remind us that we aren’t a perfect person
The biggest monster in our life is our thought
If u want to learn about urself…then listen to ur deepest heart…it’s the real us
Asking help from other doesn’t even mean that we are a weak person, it just reminds us why He created others to live with us…
By giving with sincere heart…u will receive more than u could even think…
If we always think in our box…we will never know the amazing thing which could be happened in our life..
Everytime we hurt others…it means we hurt ourselves…
The medicine of every wound is love…
The time only helps us to reduce the pain but we are the one who choose whether we want to keep the wound or be healed…
What is the best from ourselves is being ourselves n use our strength to create a better living
Focusing on our weakness only would lead us to hopelessness…we just need to discover our strength n use it….that’s life..
Sometimes success is defined by luck..but mostly…we would reach successful life with hardwork, persistence, n faith….
When u don’t have anything left…it’s ur faith n hope that make u hang on….n walk again..so don’t ever lose ur faith n hope…
From a pessimistic person, we learn how to become alert n anticipate threat. From an optimistic person, we learn how to keep our hope n strive for it…
Fate is defined by our decisions….
If life is a games..then we should play seriously..so we don’t regret something…
Sunday, October 30, 2011
Cause women have their own strength to survive (inspired by Beyonce- Listen)
I love this song cause it has a powerful spirit. I believe every woman has her own strength to survive in every situation. As a woman, we need an attention esp from the person we love (mostly our love). Sometimes, we can be whoever they want us to be just to please their heart. But what do we receive in return? sometimes not a single complimentary word, "don't care stuff", neglected attitude, or even a taking for granted mindset that our try to be someone they want is a must thing to do.
Hei women...it's not a must thing to do! it's a choice, but sometimes it leads us to feel empty n suffered. Ask ur self whether u feel happy being someone u are not or not happy. By being someone we are not, we become someone who feel so thirsty of acknowledgement. It brings our mood upside down, so happy when we've got a lot of attention, but our world will be broken if they don't care. We turn to be a beggar of attention.
Well...the solution is not always try to please others, cause it will make us become a poor character and other will also feel pity to us. From this song, i remember a decision i've made several week ago...stop being a beggar, u'll get nothing that made u satisfy by being that. First of all, love ur self, realize that u have dignity as a woman, feel the power inside u n move. Our true love will accept our selves as our selves not another one! They will try to blend with ourselves, not always push us to change. But in relationship, there must be a balance, that women also have to blend. What i wanna say is changing in a positive way or character (be more mature than before) is a good one, but not with changing into someone u'r not. So women...love ur self :)
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