Cause women have their own strength to survive (inspired by Beyonce- Listen)

I love this song cause it has a powerful spirit. I believe every woman has her own strength to survive in every situation. As a woman, we need an attention esp from the person we love (mostly our love). Sometimes, we can be whoever they want us to be just to please their heart. But what do we receive in return? sometimes not a single complimentary word, "don't care stuff", neglected attitude, or even a taking for granted mindset that our try to be someone they want is a must thing to do.
Hei women...it's not a must thing to do! it's a choice, but sometimes it leads us to feel empty n suffered. Ask ur self whether u feel happy being someone u are not or not happy. By being someone we are not, we become someone who feel so thirsty of acknowledgement. It brings our mood upside down, so happy when we've got a lot of attention, but our world will be broken if they don't care. We turn to be a beggar of attention.
Well...the solution is not always try to please others, cause it will make us become a poor character and other will also feel pity to us. From this song, i remember a decision i've made several week ago...stop being a beggar, u'll get nothing that made u satisfy by being that. First of all, love ur self, realize that u have dignity as a woman, feel the power inside u n move. Our true love will accept our selves as our selves not another one! They will try to blend with ourselves, not always push us to change. But in relationship, there must be a balance, that women also have to blend. What i wanna say is changing in a positive way or character (be more mature than before) is a good one, but not with changing into someone u'r not. So women...love ur self :)